THUMBS UP!!! I watch it yesterday finally... Now i understand why they deserves the 8 Oscar awards.... Seriously it's worth watching... I'm not sure about what other will say, at first i saw the trailer in cinema, i was like hmmm think i might watch it which at that time i was still hesitating wor... cos it look very Indian show to me so i tot it might be mostly musical play... but i was very wrong till i saw the rating on the movie and decided to catch it last night... hahaha... it's really my wrong to under estimate it... there everything was so nice.... worth it!! Next show to follow up will be Marley & me.... heard the preview was bad... but the book was great which i read it a year ago? hopefully i wont be disappointed ya... anyway i love dogs so i doubt i will be disappointed till no where... muahahaha..... ok small trailer screen to share... Back to work....

It seems that every relationship produces its share of disappointments, insecurity, and pain. Anyone who has never been hurt, is either very lucky or very lonely.

-Dawson's Creek

Went to catch this movie yesterday with Shar, CL & Jas. Hmm... seems like i have alot to blog about this movie... but somehow didn't know what to pen down here... haha.... anyway it's nice!!! and really tells alot about Man & Woman thots... thumbs up ... some quotes extracted in the movie which i remember to share with you ... it's funny but yet so true that people are all usign the same "excuses"

“A girl will never forget the first boy she ever likes.”

“Connie, do you know why that little boy did those things? Because he likes you.”

“We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.”

“How stupid is that a girl has to wait for a guy’s call anyway, right?”

“if a guy treats you like he doesn’t give a shit, it’s because he doesn’t give a shit.”

"An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of “ruining the friendship.”

"Don’t get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he’ll do the asking."

"If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will."

"Just because you like to lead doesn’t mean he wants to dance. Some traditions are born of nature and last through time for a reason."

"Hey, let’s meet at so-and-so’s party/any bar/friend’s house” is not a date.

"Men don’t forget how much they like you. So put down the phone."

“I just need you to stop being nice to me unless you gonna marry me.”

“Maybe he lost my number or is out of town or got hit by a cab. Or maybe he is not interested in seeing you again?”

“What if you meet the love of your life? Are you suppose to let that pass you by?”

“I had this guy leave me a voice mail at work, so I called him at home, and then he emailed me to my BlackBerry, and so I texted to his cell, and now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies. It’s exhausting.

These are some quotes extracted from book .....by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

Cut your losses and don't waste your time . Why stay in some weird dating limbo when you can move on to what will surely be better territory? Don't want to hear it? Fine. Here's the answer you're looking for, "Hang in there, baby. He's not the loser everybody's telling you he is. If you wait and keep your mouth shut and call at exactly the right time and anticipate his moods and have no expectations about communication or your own sexual needs, you can have him!" But please don't be surprised if he dumps you or continues to drag you through a completely unsatisfying relationship.

He is a man made up entirely of your excuses. And the minute you stop making excuses for him, he will completely disappear from your life.

Men, for the most part, like to pursue women. We (men) like not knowing if we can catch you. We feel rewarded when we do.

Don't let the "honeys" and the "babys" fool you. His sweet nothings are exactly that. They are much easier to say than "I'm just not that into you." Remember, actions speak louder than, "There's no cell reception where I am right now."

Calling when you say you're going to call is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never gonna have a house, baby. And it's cold outside.

He will always be able to play the "friend" card on you. He only has to be responsible for the expectations of a friend, rather than the the far greater expectations of a boyfriend. He's got the ultimate situation: a great friend with all the benefits of a girlfriend, whom he can see or not see whenever he wants to. He may be one of your closest friends, but I'm sorry to say ... as a boyfriend, he's just not that into you.

Beware of the word "friend". It can often be used by men or the women that love them to excuse the most unfriendly behavior. Personally, when I'm picking friends, I like the ones who don't make me cry myself to sleep.

I don't want to be "sort of dating" someone. I don't want to be "kinda hanging out" with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I'll see again because they've already demonstrated to me that they're trustworthy and honorable -- and into me.

You can't blame a guy for having feelings. You love someone, you break up, you still have feeling. Thank God for that really. But having feelings don't mean you have to have sex.

Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, or has "issues" with marriage, will ... rest assured ... someday be married. It just will never be with you.

Everyone wants to be loved and needed, particularly by the person who just broke up with us. I understand. What could be better than hearing from the man who just told you he didn't want you in his life anymore ... his sad, wistful, "I miss you so much" voice on the other end of the phone? It's validating. It's exciting. It's irresistible. But resist you must.

My friends all say I should stop talking to him, but I think he misses me, and I like that. I miss him. I feel if I stay in touch with him, it will remind him of how great I am, and eventually he will realize that we should be together again.

A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he's not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he's showing up at your new residence to do it in person ... if he's not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you. Stop taking his calls and let him know what it's like to live without you.

Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable. However, he's still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you.

I was seeing a guy for about a month. He broke up with me, saying that he didn't feel like it could be something serious. I understood and took it well. He wanted to know if we could still hang out as friends. I said sure. Now we get together and go out and then come back to his place and have sex, just like we did before. (But now, we're "broken up.") He's really, really cute and I love having sex with him. I also think he must like me if he can't stop being around me. And I think it's kinda cool -- all pressure's off and we're having a great time together. I've decided that I think it's fine and I'm not going to call his attention for the fact that we're actually dating. Except for the fact that we broke up.

This guy is brilliant. He goes out with you, dates you, breaks up with you, then continues to sleep with you, which basically absolves him of all responsibility toward your feelings. After all, you're not going out anymore. It's genius! It's diabolical! He should be writing a book! In fact, I bet this guy could get his own little cult going if he wanted to. And let me guess, you'd be happy to sign up for that as well. For the record, this guy doesn't "like you so much that he can't stop being around you." Because here's what guys don't do if they can't live without you: they don't break up with you. This guy is seriously not into you, it's crazy. The only way you're going to figure out how into you you are ... is how fast you get rid of him.

It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less -- even a vague pathetic facsimile of less -- than you would have ever imagined. Remember always what you set out to get and please don't settle for less. These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.

Hey girl. Put down the penis, put your clothes back on, and go directly to your best friend's house. Do not find an excuse to stay. Do not think that because of all the crazy hotness of it all, it now means that you're meant to be together. Yes, break up sex does seem like a good idea, because hey, it's nice to have sex with someone you have these dramatic feelings about. It makes it all, well, dramatic. But now you know. It confuses everything and makes you separate sex and emotions. So now you don't ever have to make that mistake again. Got it? He's into the very-bad-idea-that-masquerades-as-a-good-idea, breakup sex. Over and out.

Don't underestimate the power of sex, even with someone you've been doing it with for a very long time. Especially with someone you've been doing it with for a very long time. Breaking up means not seeing them again, which also implies not seeing them naked again. It might be tempting to forget this pearl of wisdom, but just remember, it's still called breakup sex. No one has yet to rename it oh-my-god-the-sex-was-so-good-we-got-back-together-again-and-lived-happily-ever-after sex.

He's sniffing for something better, and when he doesn't find it, he gets lonely and comes "home." It's not that he's so into you. It's that he's so not into being alone. Don't give him the chance to break up with you for the fourth time. (Even the idea of it sounds beneath you, doesn't it?) Reset your breakup maximum to one and move on.

Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company.

Don't confuse being classy with being a doormat. Classy is walking away with your head held high, graciously, and with all dignity. Being a doormat is offering to drive him to the dentist for his root canal

Breakups, I've heard, are supposed to be just that. Breaks. Hard, clean breaks. No talking, no seeing, no touching ... keep your hands to yourself. The relationship is over. Half the people I know move after a huge breakup, and frankly that makes perfect sense to me. You're not supposed to sleep with the guy who just broke your heart a week ago. Fine. Next time I'm in this situation I'll cry. Stay in bed and wail. Go to the gym if I can. Call all my friends and burden them with my misery. Sleep too much. Cry some more. See my therapist more often. Get a puppy. Do whatever I have to so eventually I can move on.

Breakup sex still means you're broken up.

Cut him off. Let him miss you.

He doesn't need to be reminded that you're great.

There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

The reason it's so painful when someone disappears is you have to face the fact that the person you loved had probably left you a long time before he grabbed his coat and scrammed. The part part is realizing that he was lying to you, in some way, before the moment of vanishing.

Don't give him the chance to reject you again.

No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.

Being lonely ... being alone ... for many people ... sucks. I get it, I get it, I get it. But still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are is worse.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time.

There is something i need to say, its been so long i have waited for today. I have seen all the colours of the rainbow as i watched the sky but i cant be happy with just that i wanna live those colours feel them in my heart

i am packing my bags and hitting the runways, don't hold my hand and ask me to stay i have the colours of the rainbow in my eye it's all i really need to survive. I cant go on behind these four walls, i wanna live and feel it all. Don't worry if i fall and bleed with time it shall all heal.

I am no longer the girl you knew the girl who always came home to you. I am going beyond these walls and this town walking into the chaos and the crowd. Please don't tell me what to do you know i really do love you but its time i make my own mistake i know i will get through all the heartbreaks.

I am packing my bags and hitting the runway, you know i will make it through someday i will fly through the highs and dig through the lows and i know i will find the colours of the rainbow. I feel the wind calling me. Goodbye......its time to leave....

我改变不了环境，但可以改变自已。因为我还年轻，所以会经历一些事情，如爱情，如友情。没有人能够永远快乐幸福的过每一天。

没有人能够坦然的面对自己的坚强和软弱。让我成熟的，是经历与磨难。让我幸福的，是宽容与博爱。让我心安的，是理解与信任。

我改变不了事实，但我可以改变态度不知道为何，有些东西就是无法改变。也许，是因为还没有找到真正的梦想。也许，还在追求那永远不会有的完美。我曾虚荣过，幻想过，为狭隘的目标奋斗过。待到重新回头看时，觉得很多事情都云淡风轻了。

我改变不了过去，但我可以改变现在过去的就让它过去，会在未来走的更加好。因为抛弃了不必要的包袱，生活才会更美好。人生如此短暂，有什么理由，不去好好的生活呐。有太多的事情要还等着我去做，有很重要的人等着我去珍惜。不要回头看，前面的世界才更精彩。

我不能控制他们，但我可以掌握自已走自己的路，纵然很崎岖，纵然很陡峭。但要依然勇往直前。谁也没有控制我命运的权利。纵然会困难重重，伤痕累累，但不要犹豫，不要后悔。因为在回首时，我可以指着那条尽是痛苦和泪水的路，大声地骄傲地说：看，这就是我自己走出来的路！

我不能预知明天，但我可以把握今天“森林中有一个分岔口，我愿选择脚印少的那一条路，这样我的一生会截然不同。”一条路走的人多了，总会弄得泥泞不堪，总会弄得尘土飞扬。为何不换一条路走走，也许一切将会是另一种样子。
把握自己的今天，那么明天绝对会更好。

我不能左右天气，但我可以改变心情你对生活微笑，那么生活也对你微笑。让我们的心不再压抑，让它解脱吧。让你我的心灵飞翔，去迎接那绚丽的阳光吧！

我不能选择容貌，但我可以展现笑容和千万人相遇，和千万人相离。

我希望在生命中寻找一个能够真识相伴的人真实信任的朋友，就是幸福。无论任何时候，无论做什么事情，无论面对怎样的环境,但都知道，有这样一个人，在等我回家。有这样一个人，能够我宽容分享你的一切快乐和悲伤，能够看见我的坚强和软弱。告诉我别让生命里留下太多的遗憾！

Overcoming the world does not mean separating from it.
Overcoming the world means to overcome your misperceptions of it.

The utmost pain in this world is not breaking up with you, it is remembering the love we once shared, yet there is no likelihood to revive this love once again. i don't remember the tears, i only remember the pain...... The love that was once blissful is never going to be refreshed again.....

I try to change direction, i try to swing myself away in the air, but it is all useless, for the next moment i know, my spine hit the tree and a paralysing pain instill into me. My whole body spin, and all i see is images of moving street lights appearing and disappearing and then my neck hit something and all i can think of is you....

When you fall in love, you get controlled by your emotions. You will do the silliest and stupidest thing. You follow what your emotions tell you to do. And your emotions are controlled by the person you love deeply. Your lover's emotions are controlled by you.... Basically, when you are in love, you only laugh because he laughs or you only cry because he cries. Emotions are no longer controlled by humans, but by the love shared. The power of love : So strong that you wonder hopelessly what had happened to you...

Went to catch the movie "The Wedding Game" starring by Christoper Lee & Fann Wong. Local flim.. Overall the show is like a comedy & basically it's about speaking the truth and not liking to live in the world full of lies. Oh ya.. gave me a feeling also quite like the korea drama 浪漫满屋。。

The Wedding Game trailer...



The Wedding Game OST...





我们的爱(电影大囍事主题曲)
曲︰陳孟奇
詞︰吳慶康

女︰

手交給你 一生交給你
在你眼裡 看見我自己
直到白頭 誰都不會離棄
永恆看得見 幸福在心底

男︰

牽你手心 相伴一世紀
我會永遠 承諾保護你
直到我們 連皺紋都老去
也會讓你開心不哭泣

男︰

我們的愛 沒有四季
每一分鐘都二十五度Ｃ
我們的愛 今生不渝
天涯海角也都會有痕跡

男︰

我們的愛 心有默契
不管是誰會先停止呼吸
AVE MARIA...

Things happen in our lives that we find hard to accept. Thoughts come back to trouble us time and time again. When something happens in our lives that we find difficult to accept, we must decide if there is anything we can do to change things. If there is, we must do what we can to make things right again. But if we have done all we can, and we know in our heart that there is nothing more we can do about it now, then we should let go of whatever is troubling us. After going over all the"what at ifs" and "whys" we may learn a valuable lesson. And we find that even though it was painful, we grew through the experience. Just learning to let things go, rather then worrying about what might have been, might eventually be worth even more than whatever it is we had to let go of.

元宵之夜月儿圆，合家欢乐吃汤圆，甜甜蜜蜜满心间，幸福一年又一年。原来今天也是情人节，我依然不在你身边。我闭上眼睛会感觉，一颗深情而无语的心在和我的心在一起跳动。 元宵节祝福。今天也是弟弟的生日，祝他事事如意，天天快乐，身体健康， 等。。。

很多時候，我发现自己变的这么伤感，只知道，为什么我要活的这么累，身边的人，身边的事，有時候无法面对自己，每天重复着同样的生活，常常一个人来来去去。

总是在别人面前装作很坚强，却只是自己在折磨自己。别人说，要怪就怪自己，是自己想不通，把自己弄的那么难过的。或许，是吧。很多时候，常常一个人在家对着这电脑，发呆。不知道自己要做什么？什么可以做的？懒的连自己的房门都不愿意踏出去一步，整天把自己关在房间里，静静的，寂寞的享受着自己的孤独。

身边爱我的人，我爱的人，恨我的人，也许你们都不能体会我的这种心酸，总是把自己包裹的很好，展现在你们面前，只是怕你们看见我脆弱的一面，怕你们看出我的难过。我总是这样的辛苦着，伪装着，因为不想关心我的人担心我，不想在乎我的人心疼我，不想让讨厌我的人看不起我，所以才像个刺猬一样用刺来防备要靠近自己的人，因为怕受到别人的伤害，可当身上的刺，一根根掉了下来的时候，我再也没有能力去保护自己了，伪装了。剩下的只有支离破碎的痛。

其实，我并不是那么坚强，什么都无所谓，不在乎。我已经不是曾经的自己了，我太多时候只是在强颜欢笑。常常劝别人，觉得很容易做到，但当自己去做的时候，却发现好难好难。却怎么也劝不了自己，改不了自己固执的脾气。如果可以改变，我愿意去尝试。我想过属于自己的生活，我想勇敢的面对，我想活的好好的，我想，真的想，如果真的可以的话。。。。

我们无法忘记一个人，往往不是因为对方有多么难忘，而是因为我们有多么依恋和执着。当你执着时，连时间也要向你投降。今天一位朋友点拨这首歌给了我，聽這首歌自少可以讓自己的心靈得到一些安慰。希望我是想那首歌一样，其实我没那么爱他。。。。心情很软。。我会不会有那么一天都把他给忘了？我好害怕。。如果剩下的回忆有一天会通通给望掉。。。我会变得什么样？我好难过，眼泪又情不自禁的在脸颊上落下来。。。

今年的新年过得还可以吧..除夕新年到今日正月初八，大家都忙着拜年吗？对我而言，好像在身活方面做了些决定有所改变，希望是对的..你能够想象吗？如果近日，我说我要结婚了？哈哈.. 开玩笑的..我的未来那里可能那么容易得让他们来摆布吗...你说是吗? 可是往往事情就是那么难意料..拭目以待吧..

今年的新年比往年过的很不通,也不知如何说好... 就不说了...只希望新的一年新的开始,在此嘱咐大家,事事如意,身体健康,怀的离我远远,嘻嘻哈哈的每一天,快快乐乐一身,等等....

今年给自己的提醒和诺言..我一定要快乐!! 我会快乐!! 活的健健康康!! 不让任何人在为我操心!!

牛年人日。。祝大家幸副快乐。。身壮如牛。。生日快乐。。